12housescorpio:

cishetsbeingcishet:

oak23:

oak23:

Not to sound like a 90s shallow prep, but how you dress can affect your self esteem, and putting energy into wearing things you actively like and projecting an ideal of yourself through fashion instead of seeing clothes as things you have to put on out of obligation helps.

It also can give you a sense of control over your appearance that you otherwise wouldn’t have lmao

I bought a cape because of this

this post is written in a humorous tone but this is the realest shit.

two years ago i wore baggy sweatpants and flip flops every day because i was depressed but then decided eh to hell with it and bought some black edgy emo clothes bc thats how i always wanted to dress but never got a chance to and it was only then that i realized that the sweatpants flip flops look was just keeping me in my depression funk. i didnt like the way i looked and i didnt identify with the clothes i was wearing and it only made me feel worse.

i then went through my entire wardrobe and got rid of everything that made me feel that way.

now i have multiple outfit possibilities requiring different levels of effort but on days where putting on clothes just seems like a project i just have to put on black jeans and a band t-shirt and i can still feel good about the way i look which is a really good way to start off my day.

i can not recommend this approach to clothing enough.

Can I just say this is the healthiest mindset related post I have seen on this sight and I want every single person on here to read this

plumslices:

being in your twenties is literally so fucking inhumane. and during a pandemic. Oh my god

katadesmoi:

making art is literally actually like doing an exorcism u have to get it out of ur brain. u have to

cowboyhats:

whats-your-name-man:

champagne-stark:

champagne-stark:

prsephonies:

when i was a teenager it felt very revolutionary to be cruel to myself. like some kind of slow passive protest against how much everything hurt. i starved myself of sleep and food and tenderness because it felt right. it felt sharp and angry and radical and i wanted to be those things. adulthood is the realisation that the world is already working to cut into you well before you learn how to do it yourself. caring for yourself and others is the real protest

Michelle K, I Know I Deserve More

someoneintheshadow456:

anonymousarson:

theprideful:

f4c3:

f4c3:

It’s so funny to me when you can clearly see that someone just moved from a different sm to tumblr and they have yet to learn about enyrhing about the site, like insta artist will try to add a crop piece when tumblr doesn’t need that, or Twitter people that speak in short paragraphs and censor names in the posts with letters and numbers. Amusing

Random newcomer: K4rl and S4pn4p are so quirky

Me: I like your accent funny guy

newcomer: sorry for spamming your blog with likes and reblogs!

me: no worries, nobody cares about that here

new rando: oof sorry abt that long post you guys, I just needed to rant

me: bestie that was a 400 letter post

It’s a testament to how awful other social media sites are when Tumblr is the sane place now.

If you’re fifteen or older an still sleep with a stuffed animal please reblog this.

thefernhands:

My friend is embarrassed and thinks she’s the only one and I said id prove her wrong.

Anon me facts about me that you think are probably true

stagkingswife:

godlike-slutt:

PLEASE

This could either be hilarious or insulting…

calmingthoughtsinyourhead:

standardbox:

yeoldespacebuns:

this video is making me SOB

• Fuck
• The woman taking out a pin from her own hair to give it to a little girl
• The lady who decided she was not just gonne make a pony tail, she was gonne braid that little girl’s hair using a five strand method
• The husband of the older lady pointing out she missed a piece of hair and being so attentive
• All of them asking where her mom was and telling her not to talk to strangers
• Just all these people not just helping her out but trying to comb her hair and make sure it looks nice and that she likes it
• Im sobbing

sailermoon:

weaselle:

travesty-majesty:

notinlove:

Alexander McQueen Anemone Print dress

This dress would be great for a children’s hospital

i am highly amused by how we’ve all agreed on a petty refusal to let it go.

This is not said in judgement, like, for some reason I am absolutely tickled by it, gods save the poor soul who said color theory on the op

dead-james-potter-deactivated20:

reblog to give the person you rb’d this from a hot chocolate with whipped cream and marshmallows